Lies, Liars and the People Who Love Them!
What is trust? Can a person who lies be trusted? If their words are lies are they a lie? If their actions suggest they care but their mouth speak lies what do you do?Do you lie to people you care about? Or do you lie to people you want to manipulate? When you lie to someone you take away their freedom, their right to choose. Can you be so self absorbed that you overlook the damage lies create?
Trust is like love to some; not easily given and often misused. When a person knows you trust them they know they have a power over you.
What do you do when that trust slowly diminishes and them suddenly vanishes? Where do you put your leftover love, admiration, and confidence? How can you stop someone else's choice for you from being a staple in your life? How do you deal with the hurt, pain, and disappointment?
How do you forget that before you trusted you confided? When you confided you explained. When you explained you made it clear. "Trust is my issue. I don't do well with lies and I don't like liars".
Do you forgive? Can you move pass? MUST you move pass? Have you been an abuser of trust yourself? In your mind was it not for good reason?
After the breach of trust is revealed you finally have a choice. But how do you know if what You're choosing is what You thought it was or the lie? You will find out because your feelings aren't a lie. You will always have them.
But you have a right to walk away from the lie and the mess it created. When you clean up the mess put the fragile pieces in a safe place. It might be safe to say you can't wear it on your sleeve anytime soon.
Lady Eloise
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