Let's Talk about Sex...

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Let's Talk about Sex...

Speaking on the subject of sex is not for the faint or weak-hearted. It's for mature adults who can stand to be wowed every once in a while.

The story I heard today, did just that to me. Perhaps, I am naive, you be the judge.

So my "source", whom shall remain unidentified, reaches out to me today about a "blog ready" experience she had last night.

Background
In recent months, she has gotten more serious about life and her health, and has joined a gym. Like a Lifetime movie she meets a trainer who she is instantly attracted to, but decides not to mix business with pleasure. Weeks turn into months and she is seeing results. As can be expected, they form a camaraderie, so to speak. They flirt back and forth but nothing ever comes of it. Meanwhile, she's no nun. For her age she looks good and doesn't have a problem getting a man. Of course, he's not turning down any “purr” himself.

Last Night
Well, last night they decided to grab some smoothies after their late work out. Cleverly, she invited herself over to his house for an example of a well-balanced meal. Yeah, I know what you're thinking, me too! But she claims this guy has never made advances towards her in the 10 months she’s been training. So she considered it a casual visit with benefits. Male companionship, that’s easy on the eyes, and perhaps some dead end flirting. I did say let’s talk about sex...

They get to his home. She’s impressed that it is very nice and clean for a man. He makes a quick meal, they talk, and he mentions a low cal wine he's been purchasing from Trader Joes. She insists they have a glass. Three bottles later they are laughing and carrying on like old friends/lovers. Still he doesn't make any inappropriate advances. The wine starts to speak, because she finally asks about his back, which apparently gives him problems. He replies that “it hurts a little”. She offers to rub it and he kindly declines. Paying him no mind, she approaches him, lifts his shirt, (a trainers’ body) and begins rubbing his back. He doesn't say Anything. She begins kissing and licking his back. Still no verbal response. She takes off her gym pants and crosses in front of him. A very bold move, not to mention un-lady like. She climbs on top of him (he's sitting on the floor) and starts grinding on him. He stares. Still no words. 

The Finale' 

She gets nervous and embarrassed and tries to think of a way out of this humiliating incident. The next words come from him. "Slide your panties off" she responds with relief and says "I don't take my own panties off". She then excitedly explains to me that like a genie, they disappeared. No awkward pull or tug. She doesn't even remember how his pants got off but they were off, just that fast. He then says "Put me in". At this point this sexy, mysterious creature had her so wet, foreplay was not needed. However, she mentioned that she would have liked to have had the entire experience. Anyway, she guides him in and he goes to work. Every position, but 1" the reverse cowgirl", he went on for an hour and 10 minutes. Never once kissing her, fondling her breast or caressing her body. Just a slight hold on her hips, for direction. I repeat: For 70 minutes he changes positions and strokes her without stopping and without any foreplay. She mentally notes having had 7 orgasms and that he even encouraged her to continue to come each time. She became faint and tired and admitted to begging him to stop (LOL). After 70 minutes, he conceded. When she ran to the bathroom he was still erect.

Me oh My! I have never! Who is this guy? So ladies, you know I have a list of questions. Does sex without foreplay or any stimulation last that long, especially without rest in between orgasms? How long is too long? Or does a time limit even exist? Is this the rule or the exception? Will you now try to eliminate the pleasantries to find out? Finally, if you've never experienced mind blowing sex, what will you do to make sure you do in the future?

Personally, my hat goes off to that man. She even mentions that he didn't make the experience weird when they were finished and that when they spoke today he continued to treat her like a lady. They have decided that it wouldn't be in their best interest to cross that line again. She admits it's mainly because she's intimidated. She claims he says he wants her more as a friend. Ladies either her sex game was bad? Or do we believe them? Only they know and time will tell…

Perhaps we have just heard about the perfect one night stand...