I'm So Jealous
I used to say, "I'm not a jealous person". That is until I looked up the definition.
Jealous- apprehensive of losing affection or position.
I think all of us have felt like they were losing someone. However, its not the feeling, its the actions that follow. We tend to become defensive and combative trying to hold on. In most cases, we create false scenarios based on fear.
In the case of relationships, I feel if someone loves you they will assure you that your position is not up for grabs. In the same case, it is not their responsibility to cater to your fears. One time is enough.
Jealousy prompted behavior is the evil twin sister of trust. Trust issues are at the forefront of jealousy. We are in charge of our emotions and therefore should make a conscious decision to keep them in check. Stop reacting to all of your instant emotions. Wait and be rational and responsible with your emotions. Try not to alienate the object of your affection with your jealous tendencies. If you can not, consider removing yourself from an unhealthy relationship that lacks trust.
Lastly, know your worth. Sometimes letting go can be the best thing for you. In life, we have to get rid of good things to make room for better things.
Lady Eloise
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